Differences make this life colorful and how to equalize the communication between you and your love one is an art to handle that different. It is unbreakable thought that man and woman are different, physically, hormonal, and intellectuality. No wonder if we found so many problems between them. Man and woman finding a problem on how to understand each other. But the truth is that women and men also communicate differently. Then…what should we do?
#1 Control your willing to change him/her
It is difficult to forget our wish that as the time slip away on us, we can change the characters and habit from someone we love to be how we dream about. If we forced him/her to change that will caused something unpredictable bad happened and this could be worse than we ever think about. Try to learn how to accept him/her they way they are.
#2 Understand the differences
Man has a free characters, love to make their own decision without discussing it first with their wife or girlfriend and they like to talk about something straight to the point. Meanwhile, woman has a multi tracking brain, they can listen and do the talking with many subjects and so clever to handle their feelings. This basic different often make man and woman difficult to understand each other. Man thinks that woman talks too much and woman thinks that man is a creature with the most unwilling to listen to other. In this case, it is obvious that man and woman wanted a different way to speak. Woman prefers to use their feeling and man prefers to use their brain and logic. Try to know, understand and keep up your ability to communicate with other. Find a better way to tell him/her what you wish for.
#3 Good Quality Communication
Make a good quality of communication is not that difficult. You just need to be patience and sensitive to see the perfect condition to do the talking. Do not so easy to desperate if he/she didn’t like your idea, maybe you just took a wrong situation to talk. Try to make a communication when both of you in the right situation and feel comfortable with each other.
#4 Use your breaking time as a sharing moment
Your breaking time can turning into a perfect moment to talk to each other. Talk with an open mind and in a good mood while both of you enjoy your time together. It also can be a way to reduce the differences and the limitation when you just have a little time to spend with each other.
